How To Make a Good Impression on a First Date

What’s the most pressing issue on your mind when you have a date lined up? For most people, it’s figuring out how to make a good impression on a first date. So how do you impress a Thai woman?

One good impression leads to another. When you have a series of mutually good impressions, that’s called chemistry.

The world won’t end if you and your date don’t click the first time out. But you don’t want to waste your opportunities either. You could potentially have a future with a great woman, only to ruin your chance because you messed up the introduction.

There’s a lot of stress put on making a good impression, and that makes men nervous, especially when they’re going out with someone absolutely gorgeous.

The irony is that stressing out over making a good first impression can have the opposite effect. So before you continue, take a deep breath and relax.

Keep Calm. Here's How to Make a Good Impression on a First Date

Before you even go on your first date with someone, it pays to be ready. Anything and everything can happen on your date, so you should be prepared at all times.

Bring only what you need and might need.

• Your wallet. If you forget your wallet, you can’t be the gentleman who pays for the first date. Put it inside your pocket for safety. You can be sure it’ll come in handy.

• A handkerchief or napkin. If you’re the nervous type, a hanky will help you a ton. Sweat can make you look shiny if you don’t wipe it off and a hanky or napkin will easily do the trick.

• A watch. If you want to impress your date, a watch should always be on your arm. It tells you when you are running late, which is a big no-no. An alternate time-keeping device will do if you don’t have a watch.

• Your phone. Your phone is important because it is how you communicate with your date. But remember that once she joins you, keep your phone away until after the date is done. It’s common courtesy!

Now that you’ve got everything you need for your date, let’s move on to the actual event. The first date allows you to find out if you are compatible with each other, so it pays to make a great first impression.

Be on time.

If your dinner reservation is at 7 pm, be there at 7 pm and not a minute late. Nobody wants to wait, especially on the first date. Use your watch to ensure you are on time. Or better yet, come early to anticipate factors such as traffic and weather. You are better off waiting for her than it is for her to wait for you.

Dress confidently and appropriately.

You don’t have to dress to impress; you just need to be comfortable and confident with what you are wearing. But always remember to dress appropriately according to the venue. You can’t go fine dining in your shorts and tank tops, even when you feel confident wearing them.

Observe proper hygiene.

Girls like men who smell good. Just don’t overdo it with perfume because you never know how she might react to it. Remember to take a bath before the date to keep yourself neat and clean. Brush your teeth and shave your facial hair if needed. Also, keep your fingernails trimmed.

Be positive.

The moment you enter the restaurant, keep a positive attitude and confident vibe. Walk with a straight posture and a smile on your face. If you feel good about yourself, she will pick up on it and your date will start on a positive note.

Make eye contact and call her by her name.

If you want to make a good first impression on your date, make eye contact. Eye contact shows her that you are focused and engaged. It also helps you connect on a deeper level. At the same time, calling her by her name gives you the feeling of familiarity.

Do more than just small talk.

Move beyond topics like weather, family, or what’s on TV. While this kind of small talk is a good way to start a conversation, it can get boring faster than you’d expect. Don’t be afraid to ask her questions — just don’t make it feel like an interview. Talk about your interests and some tidbits about yourself, so you can discover similarities that you can have fun talking about more.

Treat everyone around you with courtesy.

Don’t just be kind and courteous to your date, be nice to everyone around you, including restaurant staff. If you act rude to others, how will your date know you won’t do the same to her in your future interactions?

Keep your phone out of sight and out of mind.

Remember that you are on a date to get to know her better, not to check your messages or social media. It is easy to be distracted by your phone without realizing it, so it is important to keep your phone out of sight and out of mind. Otherwise, you’ll be tempted to check on it every few minutes. If she catches you sneaking a peek at your phone, she might think you’re not enjoying her company and that you can’t wait for the date to be over with.

Pick up the bill.

If you remembered to bring your wallet, as we reminded you earlier in this blog, you should have no problems picking up the tab. It has been a long-standing tradition that men pay for the date, unless the woman states otherwise or if it has been decided to split the bill. But if you are looking to make a great impression on your first date, you should not hesitate to reach for the check when it arrives. Paying for the bill also shows your gratitude for her time.

Knowing how to make a good impression on a first date can help improve your chances with her. She will see you as a source of positivity and will likely agree to another date.

You’ve got this! A first date can be a lot of pressure for people who don’t have self-confidence. But if you remember these tips on making a great first impression, your first date shouldn’t seem like an impossible task.

All you have to do is follow our dating tips, and we’re sure you’ll enjoy a great date with a magnificent person. If things don’t go your way, don’t worry, it only means you’ll even be more prepared for next time.